Woman, 29, explains why she wants to end her life as she is granted euthanasia approval (2024)

Warning: This article contains discussion of depression, self-harm and suicide which some readers may find distressing

A 29-year-old woman has explained exactly why she wants to end her life now that she has been granted euthanasia approval.

Zoraya ter Beek, who hails from the Netherlands, has opened up about why she has decided to intentionally end her life due to psychiatric problems in the next coming weeks.

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Ter Beek received the final approval for assisted dying last week after a three and a half year process under a law passed in the the Netherlands back in 2002

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Zoraya ter Beek, 29, has decided to intentionally end her life due to psychiatric problems. (DIGICOMPHOTO/SCIENCE PHOTO LIBRARY / Getty Images)

In the Netherlands, doctor-assisted death is allowed if a doctor is satisfied a patient's suffering is 'unbearable with no prospect of improvement' and if there is 'no reasonable alternative in the patient's situation'.

Speaking about her decision, Ter Beek told the Guardian: "People think that when you’re mentally ill, you can’t think straight, which is insulting.

"I understand the fears that some disabled people have about assisted dying, and worries about people being under pressure to die.

"But in the Netherlands, we’ve had this law for more than 20 years. There are really strict rules, and it’s really safe."

Ter Beek, who has has chronic depression, anxiety, trauma and unspecified personality disorder, thought that after meeting her partner, her mental health situation would improve.

"But I continued to self-harm and feel suicidal," she revealed.

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She's tried out talking therapies, medication and over 30 sessions of electroconvulsive therapy (ECT).

"In therapy, I learned a lot about myself and coping mechanisms, but it didn’t fix the main issues," Ter Beek continued. "At the beginning of treatment, you start out hopeful. I thought I’d get better.

"But the longer the treatment goes on, you start losing hope."

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Ter Beek opened up about her mental health issues. (YouTube/TheFreePress)

After a decade of treatment, there was 'nothing left' for Ter Beek to try.

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"I knew I couldn’t cope with the way I live now," she added.

She admitted to thinking about taking her own life but was concerned about the impact it would have on her family and loved ones.

Ter Beek recalled: "I finished ECT in August 2020, and after a period of accepting there was no more treatment, I applied for assisted dying in December that year. It’s a long and complicated process.

"It’s not like you ask for assisted dying on a Monday and you’re dead by Friday."

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Opening up about the process, she explained: "I was on a waiting list for assessment for a long time, because there are so few doctors willing to be involved in assisted dying for people with mental suffering.

"Then you have to be assessed by a team, have a second opinion about your eligibility, and their decision has to be reviewed by another independent doctor.

"In the three and a half years this has taken, I’ve never hesitated about my decision.

"I have felt guilt – I have a partner, family, friends and I’m not blind to their pain. And I’ve felt scared. But I’m absolutely determined to go through with it."

She revealed that 'every doctor at every stage' has asked her if she's 'sure' and have left her know she can 'stop at any point'.

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Ter Beek now expects her doctor-assisted death will be in the next few weeks. (YouTube/TheFreePress)

"My partner has been in the room for most conversations in order to support me, but several times he has been asked to leave so the doctors can be sure I’m speaking freely," Ter Beek added.

Ter Beek now expects her doctor-assisted death will be in the next few weeks following a meeting with her medial team.

Talking about the decision which has now been approved, she told the outlet: "I feel relief. It’s been such a long fight."

On the day which has been decided by Ter Beek, the medical team will come to her house and commence the process by giving her a sedative.

"They’ll start by giving me a sedative, and won’t give me the drugs that stop my heart until I’m in a coma. For me, it will be like falling asleep.

"My partner will be there, but I’ve told him it’s OK if he needs to leave the room before the moment of death."

Ter Beek added: "Now the point has come, we’re ready for it and we’re finding a certain peace.

"I feel guilty too. But sometimes when you love someone, you have to let them go."

If you're experiencing distressing thoughts and feelings, the Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) is there to support you. They're open from 5pm–midnight, 365 days a year. Their national number is 0800 58 58 58 and they also have a webchat service if you're not comfortable talking on the phone.

Woman, 29, explains why she wants to end her life as she is granted euthanasia approval (2024)

FAQs

Who is the healthy 29 year old to be euthanized? ›

29-year-old Zoraya ter Beek's life was terminated last week after waiting three years for final approval for her euthanasia, which is legal in the Netherlands if the patient is deemed to be experiencing "unbearable suffering with no prospect of improvement."

Who is the 28 year old Dutch woman to legally end her life in May? ›

Dutch woman, Zoraya ter Beek, to be euthanized due to severe depression. Rising euthanasia cases in the West spark debates on mental health care. A Dutch woman has decided to legally end her life citing her struggles with crippling depression and autism, according to a report.

Who is the 33 year old healthy Dutch woman chooses euthanasia? ›

Vanessa Etienne is an Emerging Content Writer-Reporter for PEOPLE. A 33-year-old woman in the Netherlands opened up about her decision to end her life with euthanasia on April 25, her 34th birthday, rather than living with her mental health struggles.

What is the ethical argument on euthanasia? ›

Those in favour of euthanasia argue that a civilised society should allow people to die in dignity and without pain, and should allow others to help them do so if they cannot manage it on their own. They say that our bodies are our own, and we should be allowed to do what we want with them.

Who was the 29 year old healthy woman euthanized? ›

Zoraya ter Beek, a Dutch citizen passed away by assisted suicide. While she was physically healthy, various mental health issues had affected her to what seemed like a point of 'no return'. A young Dutch woman passed away in a form of assisted suicide despite being physically healthy.

Who is physically healthy 28 year old woman set to be euthanized next month? ›

Physically healthy Dutch woman, 28, decides to be euthanized due to crippling depression. A physically healthy, 28-year-old Dutch woman has decided to legally end her life due to her struggles with crippling depression, autism and borderline personality disorder, according to a report.

What is the Dutch euthanasia story? ›

Jan and Els were married for almost five decades. In early June, they died together after being given lethal medication by two doctors. In the Netherlands, this is known as duo-euthanasia. It's legal, and it's rare - but every year, more Dutch couples choose to end their lives this way.

Who is the healthy woman to be euthanized next month? ›

A 28-year-old Dutch woman is slated to be euthanized next month because of her struggles with mental illness after her psychiatrist said her condition will never improve. Zoraya ter Beek lives in a nice house in a small Dutch town near the German border with her boyfriend and two cats.

Can I marry a Dutch woman? ›

In order to marry in the Netherlands, at least one of the partners must be a Dutch national or resident in the Netherlands.

Do vets sedate dogs before euthanasia? ›

Many vets give the pet a shot of sedative before the euthanasia drug. The vet will explain to you what they are doing and where they are giving the shot. Some vets only use a sedative if the pet is frightened or can't relax. The shot may sting a little bit, and the drug can have side effects.

What is passive euthanasia? ›

Passive euthanasia: intentionally letting a patient die by withholding artificial life support such as a ventilator or feeding tube. Some ethicists distinguish between withholding life support and withdrawing life support (the patient is on life support but then removed from it).

Is euthanasia actually painless? ›

After the euthanasia drug has been injected, your pet will immediately become deeply and irreversibly unconscious as the drug stops brain function. Death is quick and painless.

What does euthanasia do to the body? ›

The euthanasia solution is usually a barbiturate- the same class of drugs used for general anesthesia. At a much higher dose, this solution provides not only the same effects as general anesthesia (loss of consciousness, loss of pain sensation), but suppresses the cardiovascular and respiratory systems.

Under what circ*mstances can euthanasia be justifiable? ›

According to this relatively simple idea, sometimes life is actually less preferable than death. On such occasions, when quality of life is so dreadful that a person would be “better off” dead, then euthanasia would be morally justifiable.

What are the main advantages of euthanasia? ›

Arguments for euthanasia

Some arguments in favour of euthanasia include: Human beings should have the right to be able to decide when and how they die (self-determination). Euthanasia enables a person to die with dignity and in control of their situation.

Who is allowed to be euthanized? ›

For active euthanasia, four conditions must be met: the patient must be suffering from unbearable physical pain; death must be inevitable and drawing near; the patient must give consent.

When should you decide to euthanize? ›

For example, if your pet's quality of life is seriously impaired by an injury or disease that cannot be treated or requires more care than you and your family can provide, then euthanasia may be the right decision. Quality of life is important for pets and people alike.

Do healthy animals get euthanized? ›

In companion animal practice, convenience euthanasia (euthanasia of a physically and psychologically healthy animal) is recognized as one of the most difficult situations. There is little published on veterinary perceptions of the consequences of convenience euthanasia.

What states have the highest euthanasia rates? ›

Problem. California has now become the #1 State for most animals euthanized in shelters in America and the #1 State in the homeless animals population.

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